Remote VNC to offscreen user

My problem is described here:

http://forums.macosxhints.com/showthread.php?t=59413

I have no problems using SSH or getting OSXvnc to start/stop from remote command line on any port I want. The problem is keeping my VNC work offscreen.

Jessica:

You’ll need to do your intial log-in via Fast User Switching to get your gui started, then in your account launch OSXvnc (it must be launched as your user) and set it as described on the Multi Sessions page.

Now your hubby can Fast Switch back to his account but yours is still active.

Connect to the OSXvnc running under your account and you will have access to YOUR screen, instead of his.

Please feel free to cross-post this back to macosxhints.