After getting everything setup on 2 computers on my network I keep getting this same arror from both when I try to connect to the IP.

write/select: Connection aborted (10053)
Do you wish to attempt to reconnect to

Thanks for any help!

It sounds to me like you have Apple Remote Desktop enabled on port 5900.

We recommend either disable ARD (in System Preferences->Sharing) or else moving OSXvnc to port 5901.

What VNC client are you using to connect?

Only windows. No macs or linux or nothin. Where can i find a tutorial for VNC server for windows. I keep getting lost.

I’m a little confused…What is the VNC server (name and version). And what VNC client are you using to connect to it.